Camp Killoqua's Camp Willie
A Grief Camp for Children grades 2- 12
To help with the healing process, Camp Fire USA
has designed this camp for children who have lost someone they love. There are very few
resources in the Northwest to help children through the isolation often associated with
grief. This camp is one way to provide children with the additional support they need to
get through this difficult time.
This program, begun in 1998, is a one week session that is
specially designed for children who have experienced a loss due to the death of a loved
one. Campers will have the opportunity to participate in activities and housing units as
detailed in the Summer brochure
or this website in addition to
specially interwoven programs to help children with the experience of grieving.
BEING WITH
LOSS
The experience of loss is universal. We feel it when we
leave schools and friends, move to a new city, send children to kindergarten or off to
college. Each time we mourn a little, and we grow a little. We understand that these
experiences are part of the natural progression of life. Sometimes the natural progression
is interrupted. When children lose someone they love due to death, they experience a loss
incomparable to any other and must reach beyond the innocence of childhood to grasp one of
lifes most profound lessons. This is compounded when the death results from suicide,
homicide, illness, accident or other unexpected events. When children lose a parent, they
may have lost one person who could help them the most. Other family members may understand
but they too have experienced a loss and are attempting to deal with it. Friends care, but
unless they have experienced the same loss, it is hard to feel they truly understand.
Consequently, a child experiencing grief too often feels very much alone.
DETAILS
While at camp your child will stay in a cabin with
other campers of the same age and gender. A specially trained resident camp staff member
will guide the cabin group through an exciting week of activities. In addition, staff
members with experience and expertise in the bereavement process will also offer
activities and be available. A registered nurse and qualified professional counselors will
be available at all times.
CELEBRATING AND
HONORING
Campers attending the first grief camp created this beautiful swan
from a large chunk of stone that was presented to them at the beginning of the week. Each
camper spent a little time each day under the watchful eyes of a master craftsman. As the
campers spent time with the swan they learned more about each other and shared their
stories. Campers attending the second grief camp chose a location and created a home
for
the swan much in the same way.
The swan has become
where each grief camp begins with a moment of reflection and the opportunity to meet new
people and share our stories. The week ends with a special all camp ceremony in a space
that has been created by all the campers. Throughout the week campers bring items that
they make or find to celebrate and honor their loved one. In the process of all these
items coming together are conversations and discussions that allow campers to get to know
and support each other.